You may have already noticed that you're experiencing some emotional changes during puberty. Some changes are really positive – others are more challenging. Here are some types of emotional changes during puberty that you might be noticing:
You're now able to think more abstractly including how to analyse and think about things more like an adult than a kid.
Your feelings might start to make a lot more sense to you. You may find that you can express what you're feeling a lot better, whether you're feeling happy or sad. This gives you a clearer sense of 'self' – of who you are. But just to complicate things a bit, you could also be feeling more self-conscious and less inclined to open up.
You may get mad at parents and friends easily. A little thing that wouldn't have bothered you earlier drives you crazy now. Your little sister might really get on your nerves. Feeling angry is normal during puberty because of the hormonal changes. In fact, for the same reason, many women get edgy just before their periods.
'Mood swings' are also common throughout puberty. This is when you feel really happy one minute and then really angry or even sad the next. So if you're feeling angry you may want to count to 10 (it works) and think about it before you yell at your mum or friend.
You may cry because of something very serious that makes you feel sad or disappointed – or you may burst into tears because you left your favourite T-shirt at the gym. This is also normal. It happens to a lot of women having premenstrual syndrome too, and will happen to most girls throughout puberty. Just accept that you're a little emotional right now.
Some girls find that they're feeling more feminine. Whether you prefer playing footie with the guys or comparing notes with your girlfriends on nail varnish, remember – that’s what happens ….
You probably compare yourself to your friends, and feel like there's something wrong with you. You may feel unsure of yourself. Well guess what? Everyone else does, too. Your personality is growing and you're becoming even more unique – when all you want is to fit in more easily. Just remember that everyone else your age is self-conscious too, so chances are they won't be worrying about you.
We keep telling you how normal all of this is for a reason – because it is. You can use this special time in your life to learn about yourself and the emotional changes during puberty that you may experience. Here are some more ways to keep your sanity:
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