You may be a veteran at this period stuff, but do you really know fact from fiction? Check out the facts behind some of the most widely believed period myths. You might be surprised.
Myth 1: You can't get pregnant during your period.
It's not likely, but there's always a chance - particularly at the end of the menstrual cycle1.
Besides, unprotected sex puts you at risk for sexually transmitted diseases2. So, if you know your
daughter is sexually active, or if you just want her to be prepared for the day she is, be sure to give her the facts.
Myth 2: Your daughter will tell you when she starts her period.
She may but then again, she may not. This is new territory for your daughter, and she may feel shy or too
embarrassed to discuss her period with you. Make sure she knows that you welcome discussion and questions about
intimate subjects. She needs to feel that she can trust you with such personal information.
Myth 4: Your daughter should always rest during her period.
If your daughter feels like exercising, there's no reason why she shouldn't. It's actually a great way of controlling PMS and cramps because it increases the supply of oxygen to the muscles.5 And sweating out all that excess fluid even helps to ease bloating too. So, you shouldn't make her rest or exercise, unless she feels like it. Just let her do whatever helps her to have a happy period.
Myth 5: I need to take my daughter to the doctor when she starts her period.
Unless there is a problem like severe pain or bleeding, you probably don't need to take your daughter to the doctor just because she has had her first period. Typically, women should begin those visits when they become sexually active or go for advice when the first turn 18, whichever is first. For more detailed information on when to take her to the doctor, read about it in the Your Health section.
Myth 6: Your daughter's period should last for exactly one week.
Everyone's period is different. While the average period may last four to five days, it's perfectly natural for a period to last anywhere between three to eight days4. Your daughter's period may be sporadic, especially when it first begins. If after her first menstrual year, her period is typically longer or shorter than that, you should talk with her doctor about it.
Myth 7: Your daughter shouldn't go swimming during her period.
This is a site about pads. But the truth is, pads don't work in the water. So if your daughter is planning a trip to the pool during her period, she needs to wear a tampon. If she does, it's absolutely fine to go for a swim5. But if tampons aren't her style, tell her she can still wear a pad in her swimsuit if she sticks to sunbathing and stays out of the water.
Myth 8: Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) is all in the mind.
It is a proven scientific fact that women experience hormonal changes roughly two weeks before their period6. These hormones can bring on PMS symptoms like irritability, depression and fatigue, among other things7. Even if your period doesn't affect your mood, you shouldn't discount the possibility that hers does. Check out our section on happy together for tips on ways to live harmoniously during her period. Or learn more about PMS to find out ways to minimize its effects.
Myth 9: Talking to my daughter about periods before she starts will only scare her.
It's always a good idea to be open and honest with your daughter. Because girls typically begin menstruation anytime between the ages of 9 and 16, it's hard as a parent to know when to broach that topic. You should look for signs in your daughter's development like budding breasts, an increase in perspiration, pimples and underarm hair. These clues can help you to know that she has entered puberty and you should open the dialog. If you don't talk to her first, she may be scared when she starts bleeding.
Myth 10: Virgins shouldn't wear tampons.
Tampons can't take away your daughter's virginity. The only way to lose your virginity is by having sex10. But many moms are still uncomfortable with their daughters using them and that's okay too. Pads work just as well. Help your daughter find her perfect pad with the Always product selector.
References
1 Kirsten Braun, "The Pill: Myths and Misconceptions," Health Journey, Vol. III, http://www.womhealth.org.au/healthjourney/
pill_myths_misconceptions.htm, 2003; and TeensHealth.org, Canadian Public Health Services Capital District Health Authority, Dalhousie University Faculty of Medicine, "Examples of Misconceptions: Periodic Abstinence," http://www.chebucto.ns.ca/Health/TeenHealth/HSex/bcmisper.html, 2002.
2 KidsHealth.org, Center for Children's Health Media, Nemours Foundation, "About Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)," http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/stds/std.html, 2004; and "Sexually Transmitted Diseases," Sex, Etc., Rutgers University, http://www.sexetc.org/topic/std, 2004.
3 Tampax.com, P&G, "Tampon Myths & Misconceptions," http://www.tampax.com/questionsanswers2.php?topic=1, (2006).
4 beinggirl.com, "Ask Iris Questions About Irregular Periods," http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/questiondetail.jsp?ContentId=ASK245, 2006.
5 beinggirl.com, P&G, http://beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/questiondetail.jsp?ContentId=ASK232, 2006.
6 Planned Parenthood.org, "Having Your Period," http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sexual-health/
teens-health/having-your-period.htm, 2005.
7 Women's Health Channel.com, "Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS)," http://www.womenshealthchannel.com/pms/, 2006.
8 Center for Children's Health Media, Nemours Foundation, TeensHealth.com, http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/virgin.html, 2004.