Hello Sarah!
Thank you for writing to me! I am sure it must be difficult to deal with your daughter having her period at such a young age! I am sorry it is so hard to find the right product for her. I will definitely share your comments with our marketing team!
In the meantime, I can propose two solutions to you, based on size, as she still does not have a real flow. I would suggest you either try our Always Silk Normal (http://www.always-info.co.uk/product_20.html) which is a bit smaller in size that Always Ultra normal, or check our range of pantyliners for a size that could work at www.alldaysinfo.co.uk (there is Normal, Large and LongPlus).
If you need information on how to talk period with her, there is a section on the Always website called "for mums" (http://www.always-info.co.uk/girls-puberty-for-mums.html)
Sorry I could not be of more help at this point!
Danai